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  1. Alissa
    May 18, 2012 @ 1:17 am

    I wish I was able to forget more easily too.

    On a fun note, have you seen the How I Met Your Mother episode where Lily has “you are dead to me”-eyes? It’s a great one and a phrase we use around here to lighten the mood when one of us has been wronged.


    • Desiree
      May 18, 2012 @ 1:26 am

      Yes…love it…and I wish we used it with a little more humor in my circles. 🙂 I always hear the phrase that you have to “leave the past behind you”, but I feel so foolish when I let people back in my life only to have them hurt me again.


  2. Rajean
    May 18, 2012 @ 6:22 am

    You made me think. Thanks for that. One of my best friends is very much like what you describe. She has nearly zero tolerance for people who betray her and yet she has many good friends. I do tend to be forgiving, but I suppose there are conditions to that forgiveness.


  3. Kelly
    May 18, 2012 @ 1:10 pm

    It’s tough to forgive sometimes, but I think we never really forget. I know I kind of have a mental checkbox that has me be slightly wary of people if they’ve done something in the past. It’s a tough thing for sure.


  4. Fadra
    May 18, 2012 @ 9:59 pm

    Yowch. I hear you though. I think some people are too quick to forgive and forget. I do judge people by their actions and sometimes a “wrong” is too wrong to carry on a friendship.


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